Question 1:
Hello, I was wondering how one would control their empathic emotions?
Like an example, my friend's mom died last week, I feel really bad
for her and her family, but not so much that one would just cry and
cry… I did. I was sick for three days too. I can remember years back
also when something like that happened and I got so sick. I don't
watch sad shows for fear I will make a fool out of myself crying.
Is there anything I can do to control that? I want to be of support
to my friends when sad things happen and to seem like I'm in control,
not a basket case… Help is needed anyway you can.
Greetings,
You're not the only one that suffers from a sensitive empathic
personality. I too suffer from it. I find that the closer I get to
the women's time of the month the more my emotions are weak. That's
how I would put it. I cry at about anything. Mostly TV, or movies. I
have not had real bad family issues or friends family issues to deal
with, but I'm sure I to would be a basket case if I did. It sounds like your
doing the right thing and avoiding sad things as well as you can. You
could try supporting your friend, by using positive energies when
dealing with that person. Like sending her family flowers, or taking
them out for dinner, positive support. I hope in time “that" sadness
gets better to deal with. You might also ask others to, talk to other
people that deal with sensitive empathic conditions, get more then
one piece of advice. I did when I needed help, and still do, ask
people when I'm having problems. I wish you the best of luck. Take
some time for yourself, and do something positive.
Blessed be,
Dunya
Question 2:
My name is Mark and I was wondering if you could solve an argument
with me and a buddy of mine? Last week we went to this dark bar. There was this lady there, dark
hair, bright blue eye's, and fangs, beautiful. She was coming onto
both of us. We danced and drank most of the night. When we left the
bar the lady pulled up in this really nice car and asked if we wanted to
go with her to her place. I didn't. But my buddy did. He got in and
left with her. I left and went home. The next afternoon, my buddy
showed up, telling me what a good time I missed. He told me that she
drank some of his blood. I was shocked that he would be so stupid. The lady used a razor and made a small cut in the arm. But still, I
told my friend that drinking blood and using razors is very unsafe.
He said they where safe. So the question is, was it a safe thing to
do? Or not?
Greetings,
Mark, first off, any drinking of blood is never 100% safe. Your
friend was being very dumb, going with someone he does not know, especially
when that person is in a dark bar or any bar, but that one is worse.
You can't know what hangs in bars like that, or any bar. To go with
someone that looks like Hollywood vampire, made up that is, and join
in her feeding party is very unsafe. There was no blood test. You
don't know there sexual history, you don't know there diet, or meds
that might be taking, or even drugs. All that can be passed in the
blood. I'm not saying that your friend is unhealthy or has anything.
But even with her, she could. Even if he doesn't drink blood, if there was
sex, you can get something that way. Or the cut could get infected.
There are a lot of reasons not do drink blood. There are real vampires in this world that do drink blood. But the smart ones have
donors. Their loves, people they know. There have been a lot of
safety issues that have been met first. So to say your friend made a
bad mistake, yes. It's best to educate yourself on real vampirism, the real life, condition and what to expect.
Blessed be,
Dunya