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Question 1:

Hello, I was wondering how one would control their empathic emotions? Like an example, my friend's mom died last week, I feel really bad for her and her family, but not so much that one would just cry and cry… I did. I was sick for three days too. I can remember years back also when something like that happened and I got so sick. I don't watch sad shows for fear I will make a fool out of myself crying. Is there anything I can do to control that? I want to be of support to my friends when sad things happen and to seem like I'm in control, not a basket case… Help is needed anyway you can.

Greetings,

You're not the only one that suffers from a sensitive empathic personality. I too suffer from it. I find that the closer I get to the women's time of the month the more my emotions are weak. That's how I would put it. I cry at about anything. Mostly TV, or movies. I have not had real bad family issues or friends family issues to deal with, but I'm sure I to would be a basket case if I did. It sounds like your doing the right thing and avoiding sad things as well as you can. You could try supporting your friend, by using positive energies when dealing with that person. Like sending her family flowers, or taking them out for dinner, positive support. I hope in time “that" sadness gets better to deal with. You might also ask others to, talk to other people that deal with sensitive empathic conditions, get more then one piece of advice. I did when I needed help, and still do, ask people when I'm having problems. I wish you the best of luck. Take some time for yourself, and do something positive.

Blessed be,
Dunya

Question 2:

My name is Mark and I was wondering if you could solve an argument with me and a buddy of mine? Last week we went to this dark bar. There was this lady there, dark hair, bright blue eye's, and fangs, beautiful. She was coming onto both of us. We danced and drank most of the night. When we left the bar the lady pulled up in this really nice car and asked if we wanted to go with her to her place. I didn't. But my buddy did. He got in and left with her. I left and went home. The next afternoon, my buddy showed up, telling me what a good time I missed. He told me that she drank some of his blood. I was shocked that he would be so stupid. The lady used a razor and made a small cut in the arm. But still, I told my friend that drinking blood and using razors is very unsafe. He said they where safe. So the question is, was it a safe thing to do? Or not?

Greetings,

Mark, first off, any drinking of blood is never 100% safe. Your friend was being very dumb, going with someone he does not know, especially when that person is in a dark bar or any bar, but that one is worse. You can't know what hangs in bars like that, or any bar. To go with someone that looks like Hollywood vampire, made up that is, and join in her feeding party is very unsafe. There was no blood test. You don't know there sexual history, you don't know there diet, or meds that might be taking, or even drugs. All that can be passed in the blood. I'm not saying that your friend is unhealthy or has anything. But even with her, she could. Even if he doesn't drink blood, if there was sex, you can get something that way. Or the cut could get infected. There are a lot of reasons not do drink blood. There are real vampires in this world that do drink blood. But the smart ones have donors. Their loves, people they know. There have been a lot of safety issues that have been met first. So to say your friend made a bad mistake, yes. It's best to educate yourself on real vampirism, the real life, condition and what to expect.

Blessed be,
Dunya

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